Exorcising the empty self (Part 2)

(Part 1)

My apologies to anyone who may have been frustrated by my delay in completing this series of posts.

To continue, J. P. Moreland has outlined some steps to cure the epidemic of empty self syndrome. The first was admitting the problem which I discussed in part 1 of this thread. The second is to choose to be different from the trend of the culture, even in our own evangelical subculture. In elaborating on this point, Moreland uses a phrase that I particularly like; eschewing intellectual flabbiness. One means proposed for doing this is to engage in discussions with people with whom you disagree. While it can be frustrating, the net result should be that you will be challenged to refine your own beliefs and your reasons for holding them, and be motivated to learn how better to argue your positions. The goal here is stretching your own intellect, not necessarily changing someone else’s view. A side effect of this, however, may be that unbelievers who are accustomed to Christians that merely parrot what they’ve heard from the pulpit are surprised to hear someone actually applying reason to their faith and its objects. This can lower intellectual barriers that may have kept the Gospel from being effectively communicated to these people.

A third requirement for casting out the empty self is changing our routines. The object of this step is to take note of times during the day that we are typically low in energy and, rather than allowing ourselves to sink into passivity, like collapsing on the couch and turning on the television, using those times to exercise our bodies. This seems paradoxical, to do something that requires energy when we feel like we have no energy, but strangely it works. I put it to the test Friday evening. When I came home from work I felt completely drained of energy and felt gravity pulling me inexorably toward the couch. Before lethargy took me completely, I put on my running shoes and went out for a three-mile run. I don’t know where the energy came from, but the run felt great and the result was, when I got back and cooled off, I felt rejuvenated and was able to spend the rest of the evening playing with my son and finishing a book.

Moreland specifically suggests using the energy we gain from exercise to refocus and read a challenging book.

Fourth, develop patience and endurance which are required for the hard work of stretching ourselves intellectually. It takes effort and time to work through a complex idea, particularly when we are encountering it for the first time. If we have not developed these attributes we will quickly weary and likely move on to a less challenging activity. Self-denial is an integral part of developing these traits, as we learn to ignore our natural tendency to distraction and become better able to focus our thoughts.

Dr. Moreland recommends two specific resources; Richard Foster’s Celebration of Discipline and Dallas Willard’s The Spirit of the Disciplines. Both of these volumes aid the reader to practice the spiritual disciplines, such as fasting, solitude and others, which Moreland encourages as the ideal means toward growing in patience and endurance.

If the term, spiritual disciplines is unfamiliar to you, don’t feel bad; I daresay it’s not something you’ll hear about in even most evangelical churches these days. To some degree that may be because of our aversion to anything that might suggest that salvation is a product of any effort of our own, i.e. works salvation, but in reality these disciplines are nothing more than processes by which we work off some of our dead flesh and strengthen our spiritual muscles. Our neglect of them is why, in my opinion, our Christianity is often little more than skin-deep.

The fifth step is self-explanatory; develop a good vocabulary. As I am inordinately fond of saying, “Words mean stuff.” The more words you know, the better able to express yourself precisely you will be and the more you will be able to glean from books and articles that challenge you. Make a point of noting words you come across that you aren’t familiar with and, if you haven’t a resource with which to look them up right then, keep a list and look them up later.

Finally, set some intellectual goals. The most important part of this step, I believe, is the idea of accountability. Moreland describes an ongoing relationship with a study partner with whom he establishes a reading program. They each read the same books and/or magazines and meet weekly to discuss them. If, like me, you tend to flounder in your reading, or just jump from book to book without finishing many of them, this seems like an ideal way to keep your reading goals on track and make it a more profitable exercise at the same time.

These steps are perhaps less specific than we might like. The reason, I suspect, is that there aren’t any quick fixes to the problem of the empty self. It requires determination and effort to alter, radically in many cases, our overly passive lifestyles.

I’d like to point out, in case there’s any confusion, that the oft-used term passivity in this discussion refers largely to intellectual passivity. Thus, there’s no contradiction in citing our hurried and busy lifestyles as part of the problem while claiming that we are too passive. We are carried along by our daily frenzy of activities with very little required of our minds.

On a final note, the empty self is not, obviously, merely a Christian phenomenon. The cultural influences that have turned us into vegetables have acted equally on Americans of all religious persuasions. Dr. Moreland wrote his book largely from the concern that the academia was overwhelmingly secular and the Christian intellectual was an endangered species relative to days gone by when, as he quotes an unnamed historian, “the church could still out-think her critics.”

The difference for us is that our Biblical worldview compels us to love God not only with our hearts and our souls, but with the minds that he has given us. I believe that not just the university, but our local churches suffer from a lack of intellectually challenging material that goes beyond the familiar phrases and the latest Christian fads. Theology, for example, is often viewed as a “turn-off” in our trend toward “seeker-friendly” churches and so our people continue on a milk diet when we need to be maturing to spiritual food.

These steps, summarized here from J. P. Moreland’s book Love Your God with All Your Mind, can help to banish our empty selves and replace them with selves who are alive and growing in every facet of our being as God means us to be.

Exorcising the empty self

In a previous post I listed J. P. Moreland’s seven traits of the empty self as described in his book, Love Your God with All Your Mind. I acknowledged, in listing them, that most of those traits are manifest to some degree, or have been, in my own life. For that reason I have declared the year 2005 as a year of personal exorcism; casting out the empty self, to borrow Dr. Moreland’s phrase.

So what does the good doctor recommend?

Admit the problem.

This refers to more than recognizing these traits in yourself. Moreland advocates raising awareness of this condition in our circle of believers and certainly in our own homes. He views it as an epidemic that is more the rule than the exception in today’s Church. We need to talk about the importance of the Christian mind and the need to regain ground that has long been ceded to the secularists because much of the Church has had this notion that faith precludes reason. If that were so, somebody forgot to tell the Apostle Paul. In truth, this attitude serves as an excuse for intellectual laziness. When a difficult idea is encountered we balk piously in the name of faith rather than working through it.

Having recognized the need, we must then choose to be different.

A more difficult task than it seems when you stop and think about the ways our very culture is geared toward perpetuating this frenzied, always hungry, never fulfilled, utterly unreflective way of living.

Hmm… due to my frenzied, largely unreflective day, the hour has gotten late. I’ll talk more about this in my next post and give you the rest of Dr. Moreland’s prescription for exorcism.

Change of plans

I was going to follow my last post with a summary of J. P. Moreland’s recommended procedure for casting out the empty self, from his book Love Your God with All Your Mind, but other demands on my time preclude getting into it at the moment. I expect to return to it shortly, but at the moment there are things more needful than blogging to which I must attend.

An exorcism in 2005

How’s that headline for an attention grabber, eh?

I’m completely serious about the exorcism, however. Oh, not in the strictest sense, I suppose. That which is in need of casting out is no spiritual power of darkness. It is not any fallen angel I seek to expel, but what J. P. Moreland calls the empty self.

Seven traits typical of this condition are listed in his book Love Your God with All Your Mind , and nearly all of them are intimately familiar to me:

  1. Inordinate individualism
    Note that’s inordinate. Moreland is not here speaking of a healthy sense of self that enables us to avoid sheep-think, and that is capable of the deliberate self-denial to which our Lord calls us, but rather a disconnectedness from family, church and community in determining our life goals, values and interests. Interestingly, it is quite possible, common even, to be excessively individualistic in orientation, but to be so according to the mold fashioned for us by Madison Avenue.
  2. Infantile personality
    Constantly needy, desiring external affirmation and fulfillment in the form of stuff and entertainments. Like the Queen song, “I want it all and I want it now.” As Moreland says, “For the infantile personality type, pain, endurance, hard work, and delayed gratification are anathema.” Not for me, of course… I like all those things!
  3. Narcissism
    It’s all about me. Our choices in life, even that of which God, if any, to serve, and the manner in which we serve Him, are made on the basis of how they serve our agenda for our lives.
  4. Passivity
    For me, this is the big ouch. I’m going to quote a lengthier passage for this one:
    The couch potato is the role model for the empty self, and without question, modern Americans are becoming increasingly passive in their approach to life. We let other people do our living and thinking for us: the pastor studies the Bible for us, the news media does our political thinking for us, and we let our favorite sports team exercise, struggle, and win for us [or struggle and fall just short of the playoffs for us... as the case may be. -SCP].
  5. Sensate
    Decisions are made and opinions formed on the basis of imagery, primarily received via television, rather than the written word which can be digested thoughtfully, allowing the information to be sifted by our reason. The result is that rather than weighing claims that are presented our minds too often accept things as self-evident because we have seen them portrayed visually, regardless of the truthfulness of that portrayal.
  6. Undeveloped interior life
    Our pursuit of distractions and emphasis on image has devalued inner attributes such as character, virtue and nobility. These attributes, while able to be shaped by external, experiential factors, are truly formed by an inner process of reflecting on truth and applying what is learned to our own nature.
  7. Knee-deep in the hoopla
    Okay, that’s a severe paraphrasing. Moreland used the words hurried and busy; words with which we all can no doubt identify, particularly in the aftermath of the Christmas season. Again, to quote:
    Because the empty self has a deep emotional emptiness and hunger, and because it has devised inadequate strategies to fill that emptiness, a frenzied pace of life emerges to keep the pain and emptiness suppressed. One must jump from one activity to another and not be exposed to quiet for very long or the emptiness will become apparent. Such a lifestyle creates a deep sense of fatique in which passivity takes over. And fatigued people either do not have the energy to read or, when they do, choose undemanding material.

These brief descriptions don’t really do the topic justice, but as I read them from Professor Moreland’s book they ring all too true. The unmistakable conclusion is that I am possessed of an empty self! Ergo… exorcism.

Fortunately, Dr. Moreland prescribes an appropriate procedure for effecting this, which I will attempt to summarize tomorrow.

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